Smile

“I want things to change but I don’t want to change.”
That’s what I hear from people not only with my work, but with people I know. Most people complain that their life is lacking something, but are unwilling to think or do something different.

The one subject that I hear the most often is women want to attract a man for a relationship and yet they are unwilling to do what it takes to attract dates. Now, I understand and am fully aware that some people may not know how to go about it.

A woman I know who is smart, cute, athletic, interesting and nice told me she has had over 1000 hits on an internet dating site. She has had several dates and still not in a relationship. I asked her what she thought was going on? Her response, and I kid you not, was that she didn’t want to wear heels to impress a man. She wanted to be accepted for who she was. I understand this, but heels are not going to attract the man. A simple change that anyone can do is SMILE.

I noticed she doesn’t do much of that. I smile all the time and people flock to me. Who wouldn’t want to talk to the smiling woman? It’s like a magnet. I’m smiling away enjoying life and people comment or they ask me something. I always have someone to talk to. Smiling works. Smiling is something everyone can do. It’s contagious. Try it, it’s free!

No one has to change to be accepted. I don’t think that’s the issue here. I think put on a smile and see what happens. I’d love to hear what your experience is. Go out and give it a try. Smile in the grocery. Smile on the bus. Smile as you drive your car. Smile everywhere you go. Smiles everyone, smiles!